Your perception that "the relative immediate reality is wrong, the problem is that thee (there) is no immediately obvious alternative" is based entirely upon your "i am as polarized a person as you will most likely ever encounter" mindset. You don't see that though and you can't see it due to the mindset you have confined yourself to, so you will remain stuck where you are and you will never see any possible solution until that mindset is done away with. What happened to United We Stand?