Anyone here has the right to say and do any damned thing they choose, regardless of whether they do so with your blessings or otherwise.

Unless and until your kind, AKA those hell bent on espousing how every one else should, would or ought to act/speak/live their lives are completely in control it's still an almost free world.

All your well intentioned crap is just fine, so long as you direct it toward the one person you have a every right to focus it on .... yourself