I've tried (well, not really).. but I really just don't give a fuck about pronouns, trans gender, blah whatever. I also don't understand people who get worked up about it.

I just.. don't care. Maybe because I don't really care about others?

In a previous role I worked for somebody who'd had sex change operations. One of the nicest people I've met. I just couldn't give 2 shits.

At work I don't refer to "him/her/it" or whatever. I call Sarah .. Sarah. I call John .. John. I don't care if John wants to be called her, or Sarah wants to be called him or the Chinese guy wants to be called Fred/they.

I just find that there's just more important things to be annoyed by in life than what other people do to themselves, and continue to ignore everyone else.

As for gay marriage.. again, who cares? If they want to get married, let them. My wife and I went to dinner and drinks last week with some neighbours and their friends. She was the only woman, I was the only straight male. Yet, it was a good night, we all drank a lot and if them being gay doesn't change my life, then good luck to 'em.